Wisdom For A More Peaceful Marriage

By Bob Lancer
November 1st, 2011

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Marriage advice for couples who fight

The key is to work on putting it into practice to the best of your ability EVERY TIME YOU FEEL THE URGE TO FIGHT WITH YOUR MATE

There probably is not a couple on the planet that could not use marriage advice that pertains to improving communication.

One of the most common communication problems faced by couples is when one of the partners habitually engage in verbal fighting.

One you hear something that you don’t like, do you instantly, automatically, and thoughtlessly launch into an intense emotional reaction in the form of verbal contentiousness?  Does that characterize your partner’s communication pattern?

Fortunately, there is some great relationship help available to couples struggling with this challenge.

Marriage advice for couples who fight:

An argument takes two people.  The next time that you feel the urge to fight, simply don’t.  Instead, concentrate on feeling inner peace.

This simple piece of wisdom for a harmonious marriage may seem TOO simple to use.

To those who have already tried to apply this form of relationship help, it may seem too DIFFICULT to use.

The key is to work on putting it into practice to the best of your ability EVERY TIME YOU FEEL THE URGE TO FIGHT WITH YOUR MATE.

Your relentless commitment to practice this relationship wisdom to the best of your ability will gradually build up your power of self-control.

What does YOUR mate say or do that triggers YOUR urge to argue or fight?

What do YOU say or do that triggers off your mate’s argue-pattern?

In this blog, share what you have tried to resolve marital issues without fighting as well as any questions about this topic that you have.

There is no sane person who enjoys a marital squabble.  But the unpleasantness of your experience has nothing really to do with your partner.

As you follow the marriage advice of working on improving your reaction when you feel like bickering, you will gradually find yourself feeling more free.

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