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Great communication in a marriage gives you a powerful advantage in life.

What’s the general quality of communication in your marriage?

On a consistent basis, how much loving-kindness passes between you and your life-partner during your important conversations– even during your casual verbal exchanges?

Do your efforts to communicate effectively often lead to feelings of a broken connection? Do your attempts to solve problems together end up producing more problems, like marital bickering?

Are your discussions with your spouse typically characterized by harmonious feelings of marital intimacy, or would you describe them with words like “contentiousness”, “combativeness”, “criticalness”, “annoyance”?

While communicating with your partner about typical relationship “hot buttons” like financial difficulties and disciplining the children, do you tend to feel uplifted by your mate or disappointed by your mate?

Would you describe the quality of your routine, daily verbal exchanges as affectionate or as competitive?

Do the two of you talk much at all?

Great communication in a marriage gives you a powerful advantage in life.

If the two of you can strategize and problem-solve as great communicators, you will feel greatly empowered to tackle life’s challenges.

But how many partners really enjoy this gift of personal empowerment through positive marital discourse?

What if you and your mate have communication problems that just won’t go away, no matter how hard you try to fix your marriage?

Here is what you may regard as startling relationship advice if you have been hitting a wall in your efforts to converse warmly and constructively on a consistent basis:

TRUST YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS, including marital squabbling and other forms of conversation-disconnect.

If you fear a marital problem, if you worry about it, if you struggle too hard to solve it, you program your subconscious to allow it to sabotage your happiness and success – maybe even your health.

How is this for surprising relationship wisdom: Instead worrying about what is wrong with your relationship work on improving your attitude toward the way things are.

As you live in trust, you find peace, joy, love and fulfillment blooming in your heart naturally.

That worry-free state of mind releases you to live healthfully, successfully and happily.

To worry about marital discord is to deepen the relationship quagmire.

To trust your love-partnership problems does not necessarily mean being a passive mate resigned to unhappiness.

It means trusting what you cannot control.

It is part of trusting the way life is, which means living in the healing power of faith. It also programs your subconscious to keep you on track for all you want in life.

Have you applied this relationship advice in your love life?

Share in this blog any questions you have about trusting instead of fearing relationship problems.

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