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Dream Your Way To Parental Control

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, June 16th, 2011

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To improve your parental control, improve your dream control.

Enjoy increasing parental control and less parent-child conflict

Envisioning yourself in-charge, with love, and without anger and stress, helps you to achieve more parental control.

To apply this empowering parent-wisdom, think about a situation in which you find your parental control challenged by your child’s behavior.

Perhaps it happens at bedtime when your child suddenly refuses to cooperate, and you find yourself repeating directions several times, until you finally lose your patience.

Now, imagine that scene happening, but this time, imagine yourself demonstrating your ideal form of parental control.

Envision yourself feeling perfectly calm, content,
confident and in control.

Envision the entire scene flowing smoothly,
with love, ease and fulfillment.

Often, when parents feel frustrated by their child’s behavior, they repeatedly remember the difficult scenarios, envisioning their stressful, frustrating experience of lacking parental control.

But improving your control in your relationship with children begins with improving your control of yourself, and that begins with taking control of your dreams – of the imaginary visions that you focus on in your mind.

When a parent worries about future lapses of parental control,
or painfully recalls past episodes of previous “child behavior
chaos”, the parent allows negative dreaming
to rule his or her mind.

Practice the following to dream your way to improved parental control:
1. Pay attention to your thinking to recognize when you are envisioning disturbing parent-child experiences.
2. When you notice this happening, shift the focus of your thinking into envisioning that scene as you would love it to be

Your experiences with your child will gradually reflect your positive visions
of delightful parent-child scenarios more and more.

To further improve your interactions with your child, ask your child to spend time dreaming or envisioning himself or herself behaving beautifully.

Children often want to behave better than they do, but because of tiredness, habits, or other influences, they find self-control just too difficult.

By teaching your child about the positive power of directed dreaming or envisioning, you empower your child to lead a more successful life.

Guiding your child into envisioning the positive behavior you want helps you to enjoy increasing parental control and less parent-child conflict.

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Forgiveness & Child Development

By Bob Lancer
Monday, June 6th, 2011

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Teaching children about the healing powers of forgiveness is an important aspect of child development.

Forgiveness is the foundation for positive child development

But it is also quite challenging. Without realizing it, parents teach their children about withholding forgiveness when they carry and convey a resentful attitude toward them.

The Child Development Process
Is Not Always Positive.

Through our own, sometimes unconscious, patterns, we may develop negative traits and tendencies in our children.

The fact is that you cannot really improve your child’s behavior before you truly forgive your child for the misbehavior that you want to change.

Forgiveness Is The Basis For Supporting
Positive Child Development.

Holding onto resentment holds onto a form of toxic, unhealthy stress at a deep level, which compromises healthy organic functioning to some degree. High blood pressure, migraine headaches and even heart problems can be linked to anger patterns.

As we learn how to dissolve our resentments, we also dissolve the barriers to optimum health that they induce.

Modeling Represents The Most Potent Way Of Influencing
Child Development And Child Behavior.

Parents automatically instill an unhealthy pattern in their children by holding onto resentment.

Forgiveness is our natural, healthy and healing state. You don’t have to create forgiveness. You simply need to unblock it by releasing yourself from resentment.

As long as you feel resentment toward your child, your child lacks real trust in you, and then the child’s insecure emotional condition develops into problematic behavior.

As You Release Yourself From Resentment, You Release Positive
Child Development Through Healthy Modeling And Love.

When the child senses that your heart is clear, open and loving, a harmonizing influence enters and spreads throughout the child’s nervous system, promoting optimum organic health and healing.

Here is how to dissolve resentment for the sake of positive child development:

1. Notice what you are thinking about when you feel resentment.

2. The instant you notice the thought that keeps you feeling resentful, let that thought go by focusing your attention elsewhere

Releasing the healing powers of forgiveness for positive child development is a simple matter of releasing yourself from the resentful thinking that blocks love’s flow.

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Life’s Success Training

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

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Success secret: Train yourself to seek your path

The moment you begin looking for a way to succeed, you begin finding your way to succeed.

Your life IS a perfect success training opportunity.

Every experience that you go through offers you an education in how to go through it better.

If you look for a better way to live in this moment, you will find it. “Seek and you will find” is a provable law of life and one of life’s greatest success training secrets.

Train yourself to seek your path to truly
fulfilling success in the now.

What are you looking for?

a higher income?
a higher level of accomplishment?
A higher levels of talent?
a higher level of love, joy and fulfillment?

Your daily living experiences offer you the success training opportunities you need to turn your dreams into reality.

The moment you begin looking for a way to succeed,
you begin finding your way to succeed.

If you feel stuck in any way, open your mind to the educational opportunity offered to you right now. Observe what you say, think, feel and do and notice what that causes you to go through.

Then simply look for better, more effective and efficient way to achieve your goals and you will find it.

When you go through disappointment or difficulty, accept the opportunity for great success training. Look for the lessons that you can use to be more successful, and you will find those lessons even in the darkest times.

To find success, define what you mean by “success”. Training for triumph requires first that you know the triumph you want. Define and envision a particular goal. Then ask yourself, “What abilities do I need to develop to achieve this?” You will receive an answer defining the training for success that you need.

Your current level of accomplishment in any area of life is an exact reflection of your current level of ability. To achieve a higher level of success, training is required.

The best form of success training is to work on developing the abilities you feel most inspired to develop, and to turn every life-experience into a lesson that points to training you can use to lead a more successful life.

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Are You In A Good Relationship?

By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

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It’s not always easy to tell if you are in a good relationship.

are you in a bad or good love relationship?

To know whether you are in a bad or good relationship you first have to be clear about how you define a good relationship

To know whether you are in a bad or good relationship you first have to be clear about how you define a good relationship.

If you define a good relationship as one that always satisfies your desires and inspires your feelings of appreciation, you actually doom yourself to a bad relationship.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. If you need to feel up all the time to regard yours as a good relationship, you are overlooking the fact that there is great, great good available in our challenges.

For instance, one common source of dissatisfaction in relationships is the feeling that the other person feels resentment toward you. In response to this feeling, you might resent that other person.

If you examine your feelings honestly, you will realize that any feeling of resentment that you experience, whomever you believe or imagine the source to be, exists within you. It is YOUR state of resentment.

As long as you CHOOSE to live in a state of resentment you are CHOOSING to live without love.

If you regard another person as the cause of how you feel, you blame someone else
for the negative feelings that you choose to live in.

How you feel about ANYONE is really a choice. It has nothing to do with how another may feel or act.

Your feelings about another are a reaction
to the thoughts you hold in mind.

Instead of resenting another for resenting you, simply let go of your own feelings of resentment and you’ll begin feeling more free, happy and in love.

A person might believe that she is not in a good relationship based on the belief, feeling or idea that her mate resents her. But the good of that relationship is the opportunity it gives her to wake up to how she resents herself, so she can finally release herself from that pattern.

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Looking For Love Works

By Bob Lancer
Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

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Based on the absolutely reliable law of life: seek and you will find, there is definitely wisdom in looking for love.

Based on the absolutely reliable law of life: seek and you will find, there is definitely wisdom in looking for love.

Time is all that separates seeking and finding, but we never really know for sure how long it will take us to find what – or who – we seek.

But we can trust in the fact that we shorten the time between seeking and finding the more we develop and apply our power of focus.

To find the love that you are looking for may require a great deal of perseverance. Along the way to any goal of great importance to us, we need to be willing to pass through valleys of disappointment.

One key to successfully looking for love involves learning how to pass through disappointment. And the vital element to bear in mind regarding this is passing through.

When we land in yet another disappointment, it’s all too easy to get stuck there. We get stuck in disappointment by keeping the idea of it in mind. Whatever you focus upon, though, is where you are headed. That is why looking for love works.

As long as you are anticipating disappointment you are not fully looking for love. You are at least partially looking for lovelessness.

To find the love you are looking for, therefore, you need to free your focus from expectations of a replay of a sorrowful past episode in your love-life.

To do this, intentionally direct your focus to contemplate the experience of love that you want in your life. The more you practice this, the clearer your love-goal grows and the more attuned you will be to recognize your opportunity for achieving it.

Looking for love with doubt that it can happen means that you are looking with a split focus. Doubting that you can achieve what you want keeps a part of your attention fixated on failure.

Look into your heart to feel, know and envision the love you want in your life.
Looking for the love you want works.

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A Creative Key To Success
By Bob Lancer
Monday, January 10th, 2011

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Perhaps the greatest key to success is realizing that you are a creator. You create your destiny through what you think, feel, say and do.

Key to success is realizing that you are a creator

Therefore, carefully choose your responses to what happens, instead of blindly reacting, because how you respond to what happens determines what will happen to you. This applies to every area of your life, including your economy.

You are the creator of your economic destiny. If you listen to news reports, or the complaints of others, you may become confused about this.

Don’t let anyone talk you into discouragement. In any economy there are opportunities. There are those who prosper greatly. You can be one of them.

To apply the great creative key to success presented here, remember this: The more economical you are with the creative power of your thoughts, feeling, speech, action and attention, the more economically successful you are bound to be.

Consciously and intentionally direct your thinking, feeling, speaking and acting in line with the economic results you want. Notice what you are paying attention to, because your life follows the direction of your attention.

Worrying about your economic fate is one of the most common ways of misusing your creative power to direct our own economy.

If you worry about a situation that means that you want a certain outcome but you fear that it may not happen.

Yet worrying focuses your thoughts on where you do not want to go, and it generates feelings that create more havoc in your life.

And the more you worry, the more you develop a worry habit, meaning that whatever happens, you are going to be more likely to worry about what may happen.

A Creative Key to Success: For more of what you want tomorrow,
begin letting go of your worry habit today.

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Enjoy A Healthy Relationship
By Bob Lancer
Monday, January 10th, 2011

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A healthy relationship means that you function within it in a healthy way. When you relate with much nervousness, anxiety, frustration or other forms of emotional strain, it harms your health.

This does not necessarily make the relationship unhealthy, but rather, your way of relating.

Refrain from thinking, speaking and acting under stress to keep your love and relationships healthy.

When you feel in the grips of a stressful emotional reaction, here is a healthy way of dealing with it. Refrain from:

•       Thinking

•       Speaking

•       Acting

in ways that increase your stress.

Just allow your stressful feelings to be there.
Let them flow without holding onto them
and without holding them back.

You may need to take some time for solitude to permit yourself to fully feel how you feel without the burden of having to interact during that difficult time.

You will soon return to a more calm state of harmony and engage with others in a healthy way.

Just as, for a healthy relationship, you may not need to leave relationship – feeling dissatisfied in a relationship does not necessarily mean that you have to leave the relationship for fulfillment. You can leave your dissatisfaction first.

Until we are conscious enough of our thoughts and feelings, we unconsciously project their cause outside ourselves.

And yet, our critical thoughts and feelings about others
are internal conditions that we give ourselves.

Examine your thoughts and feelings more closely to discover that no one “makes” you feel dissatisfied, and you can let dissatisfaction go.

If you habitually focus on what another does that bothers you, you hold onto your disturbed feelings and blame the other for how you feel.

So before criticizing or complaining about the other person, pay more attention to yourself to notice how you are giving yourself unpleasant experience.

From there you can release yourself for a healthy, happy relationship experience.

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Personal Development Equals Greater Success
By Bob Lancer
Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

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Instead of hoping, waiting, or worrying, put yourself to work and pursue your personal development

Higher levels of success in your life requires your personal development, and your personal development involves liberation from habitual patterns.

Because your life is the product of what you do, you need to change what you do to change your results. If this does not represent your basic attitude toward success, your attitude
is one thing you need to change.

Many seem to regard themselves as a victim of their circumstances or of other people without even realizing it.

You might hear them say things like, “The reason that so many people are out of a job in the U.S. is because corporations go outside of the U.S. to hire workers for less.”

That is certainly one way to look at things, but it is not a way that really works for anyone.

We each individually need to regard ourselves as the creators of our own levels of success in life.

If you have a skill and an employer lets you go, you can actually find yourself even more successful by going into business for yourself or with one or more partners.

To make it at the highest levels you need to:

Develop your abilities and knowledge to the utmost.

Learn how to turn what you can do into a successful business.

If you are out of a job, HIRE YOURSELF!

One of changes you may need to make for your personal development is the habitual tendency to blame others or your circumstances for your problems. To liberate yourself from this self-defeating habitual mindset for greater success begins with being self-aware enough to notice when you are falling into it.

When you notice yourself expressing that overly dependent attitude:
Shift into thinking about the skills and knowledge and relationships you need to build to be more successful.

Instead of hoping, waiting, or worrying, put yourself to work and pursue your personal development.

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Tags: inspirational videos, key to success, motivational videos, personal development, success secrets, think positive
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Relationship Advice For Strife
By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

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Relationship advice is often difficult to follow because it guides us to NOT follow our habitual ways. But it is our habitual ways that keep us stuck in our same old problems.

Don't let stress effect your love relationship

The relationship advice presented here calls upon you to overcome your habitual stress pattern.

A common mistake that couples make in their efforts to improve their lives, extricate themselves from difficulties and fulfill their responsibilities is to function in an uptight, impatient, stressful mode.

This mode, however, leads to strife in their relationship. When you feel stressed you become difficult to get along with. You end up inciting stress in your mate, and that makes your mate difficult to get along with.

Many of the conflicts that couples face are caused by stress. You might presume that your mate is the problem when you are living in such a stressful way that you can’t help but feel antagonized.

You make a harmonious, loving relationship unattainable for yourself as long as you refuse to live in a harmonious, loving way. To diminish relationship strife, follow this relationship advice: diminish the stress in your life.

Build a harmonious love relationship

Stress is not caused by circumstances, but by driving ourselves too hard to control our circumstances.

To change this pattern, notice how much stress you presently feel. When you notice yourself feeling stressed, nervous, anxious or frustrated, take a breath, ease up on yourself, let go of the thoughts about what can go wrong if you don’t continue pushing yourself.

Little by little, tiny degree by tiny degree, you can replace your habitual stress with more conscious, intentional calm.

As you apply this relationship advice, you will find that you can actually be more effective and successful by functioning in a calm, confident manner, and that you find it much easier to maintain a loving, harmonious relationship with your mate.

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Solve Your Problems With Positive Thinking
By Bob Lancer
Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

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Positive thinking holds the key to any solution

Positive thinking is really the solution to any problem, because all of our problems exist only in our minds.

Does that sound impossible? Consider this. If you had no thought in your mind of any problem at all, you would experience a condition that we can call “problem free”.

You experience a problem only as long as you continue thinking about what you do NOT want. As long as you want problems, continue thinking about them. But when you are ready for solutions, it’s time for positive thinking.

A solution is a positive thought, is it not? You conceive of a solution when you imagine how things can work out well. That is essentially what positive thinking is: imagining things turning out wonderfully.

Many of us mistakenly presume that the way to leave a problem behind is to hold onto it all the time! But the first step to leaving a problem is to let go of the thoughts that create it. You need space in your mind for your solution to arrive.

Your thought of a problem is really just a sign that it is time to focus on a solution. It is time to direct the creative process of your mind. Do this by letting go of your problem mentally, and then keeping an open mind, trusting that your solution will come. it will!

A negative thought is a thought of what you do not want in your life. As long as you think of a condition you do not want, you feel stuck in it.

As you practice staying aware of your mind’s activities you gain mastery over your thinking. Turn negative thinking into positive thinking by focusing your mind on what you want. And pay close attention to the present to see and to seize your opportunities.

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