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“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough” ~ Oprah Winfrey
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Exercising your will-power to sustain your focus on achieving your goal, particularly when you feel like giving up, delivers your greatest boost toward ultimate triumph
To access your total success power, remain goal-focused.
The focus of your attention upon your intention to succeed will direct your inner-power to manifest that great success.
Know what you intend to achieve, focus on it, and reject thoughts that conceive of or visualize the possibilities of defeat.
Let go of anxiously thinking about obstacles and dangers, because what you focus attention on expands in your life.
It really doesn’t matter if you expected to achieve your goal by now.
Look back to gain success-wisdom lessons.
Consider how you may have contributed to the delay of your dream come true, in order to apply a higher level of success wisdom to accelerate your progress from this point on.
If a loss or let-down tempts you to indulge in thoughts and feelings of futility, strengthen your will-to-succeed by deliberately sustaining your focus on doing what you can in the present moment to manifest the success you want.
Thinking about the frightening possibilities of failure and disgrace is a self-sabotaging mental habit that you can gain by exercising your will to remain focused on, and actively engaged in, accomplishing what you intend to achieve.
To access your total success power, remain goal-focused.
Exercising your will-power to sustain your focus on achieving your goal, particularly when you feel like giving up, delivers your greatest boost toward ultimate triumph.
It is one of the great mind-power secrets of mental discipline demonstrated by the world’s highest achievers throughout history.
To access your total success power, remain goal-focused.
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Here is an inspirational message for you: Nothing but opportunity exists.
Envision a ray of light bringing into your mind a vision of success for you that really does feel just right
If you are feeling down about your opportunities, recharge your motivation and build your self-confidence by affirming: “Whatever my situation nothing but opportunity exists.”
When you condition your mind with this inspirational message, you attune your subconscious to seek and find your golden opportunities that are present.
It sets your creative mind-power to work on synthesizing the various details of your situation into a form that matches your dream of success.
If you are feeling discouraged about your possibilities, improve your chances for success by harnessing the power of positive thinking.
Re-direct your focus and receive the support of a positive mindset by considering no other possibility about your situation than this: nothing but opportunity exists.
You will stop seeing discouraging signs and indicators, and begin seeing how things really can work out great for you.
This form of positive thinking can be invaluable when it comes to successful goal-setting.
This is how to overcome discouragement in any situation: focus your thought on coming up with a wonderful vision of your personal success.
Just presume that it is the nature of each moment to present you with nothing but golden opportunity.
Then open your mind to a vision of succeeding in an honest, natural way that feels just right.
You never have to force things in an unnatural or dishonest way to get ahead.
As you accept the inspiring message that nothing but opportunity exists,you will receive a vision of success that utilizes your gifts and talents, feels completely fulfilling, and that matches up with who you really are.
This is a cure for economic worries. As you try on the positive, empowering mindset that every economy offers nothing but opportunities, you will began thinking of your possibilities in new ways and come up with inspiring ways to take advantage of the economy.
Here is an exercise for success:
This exercise programs the subconscious to STOP looking at disappointing possibilities, and to instead realize your great opportunity that really is present.
In this blog, please share your experience of this exercise and any questions that you have about realizing the truth of the inspiring message that nothing but opportunity exists.
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To apply wisdom for success, ALLOW yourself to fully experience however you happen to be feeling
There is an important emotional dimension to wisdom for success: however you feel is okay.
Don’t resist your feelings of unhappiness, resentment, frustration, shame, regret or insecurity.
Emotional Wisdom For Success:
When you accept, embrace, and fully TRUST how you feel, how you feel turns joy.
We students of positive thinking and motivational self-help need to remember this.
Much of the self-help success tips that we study focus on the importance of positive thinking and positive feelings, and rightly so.
But we need to remember to NOT by fear anxiety, resist discouragement, judge ourselves as “wrong” when we feel angry, over-burdened or even defeated.
To apply wisdom for success, ALLOW yourself to fully experience however you happen to be feeling.
Invite your feelings in, EMBRACE them. They will turn into beautiful harmony.
One vital thing to know for success in life, though, is what to do with your THINKING when you feel down.
It can certainly help to focus on inspirational quotes and motivational sayings.
But what is most important for success in life is to NOT indulge in thinking that makes you feel down or makes you feel worse.
If you cannot engage in positive thinking, at least keep your mind free of NEGATIVE thinking.
Try this wisdom for success exercise:
Practice this for at least 1 minute each day.
The more you practice this, the more you develop trust in how you feel.
In this blog, please share your experience of this self-help exercise, including your thoughts about it, and any questions you might have.
So when you feel down, apply the wisdom for success of THOUGHTLESSLY experiencing your feelings.
For instance, if you happen to feel lonely over the holidays, or too physically impaired to celebrate with gusto, just feel how you feel.
If your mind begins showing you a sad or frightening mental movie about your life, take your attention off your thoughts and focus it instead directly onto your present state of feeling.
Don’t judge yourself for NOT being able to apply positive thinking. Trust how you feel as you apply this wisdom for success, you will soon find yourself feeling better and better and better.
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To employ success secrets like confidence building, routinely and deliberately visualize yourself achieving results that match your wildest desires
Nothing is a source of confidence building like success.
But visualizing yourself succeeding comes very close.
Individuals who have achieved great success are extremely self-confident relative to their area of success.
Individuals whom I have known who have amassed great wealth, for instance, have the attitude that even if they lost their wealth, they feel totally confident that they could rebuild their wealth.
Confidence building is one of the great success secrets.
Notice how you feel after you accomplish something important to you. You probably feel more self-confident.
I have found that visualizing myself succeeding is also confidence building.
By contrast, visualizing myself producing disappointing results causes my confidence to wane and my insecurity to rise.
To employ success secrets like confidence building, I therefore routinely and deliberately visualize myself achieving results that match my wildest desires.
The results of this practice are wonderful. I feel less stress, less anxiety, more inspiration and more fulfillment every year, and I am delighted as I witness my positive dreams coming true!
Knowing success secrets is useless unless you put them to work. Here is an exercise for doing just that:
Please share in this blog your experience and the results
of this confidence building exercise.
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Enter the wisdom path to abundance by letting go of MENTAL conditions of lack and limitation.
Inspirational Quotes on the Wisdom of Abundance:
• There exists a wisdom-path to abundance – it winds through your mind.
• Abundance is a state of consciousness.
• As you free yourself from imaginary conditions of want, you free yourself to enter the life conditions THAT you want.
To help yourself see how abundance is a state of mind, answer the following questions:
1. When you think about your current level of abundance, what do you see?
2. When you think about your opportunities to achieve abundance, WHAT DO YOU SEE?
Whatever you SEE, in response to the above two questions, is a MENTAL CONDITION.
Personal Success Wisdom:As you direct our MENTAL conditions, you direct your LIFE conditions.
Inspirational Quotes on the Wisdom of Abundance:
• You cannot feel discouraged or worried without thinking of possibilities that you do not want to happen.
• Enter the wisdom path to abundance by letting go of MENTAL conditions of lack and limitation.
How do YOU define a life of total abundance?
What do you imagine standing in the way of your
abundance and personal success?
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how to be as abundant as you want to be.
Here are 4 steps for advancing along wisdom’s path to abundance:
1. Practice paying more alert attention to what you are thinking, when you are thinking.
2. When you notice yourself thinking of conditions of lack or limitation, immediately let that thought go – don’t count on worry or discouragement to bring you personal success.
3. Imagine and trust that you are already on the path leading you into all the abundance you desire.
4. Remain alertly aware in the here-now to notice opportunities as they arrive.
Feel welcome to share some of YOUR favorite inspirational quotes on the path to abundance in this blog.
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By examining each relationship experience you can emerge with your own love-advice for a more love-filled life.
The most essential form of love advice for relationships is this:
It’s common to blame our mate for how frustrated we feel in our relationship, but frustration is OUR REACTION TO WHAT HAPPENS.
Your mate is not responsible for how you react.
No one but you is responsible for how you react.
Advice For Relationship Success:
Advice Regarding Seeking a New Relationship:
What takes place in your personal relationships that causes you to feel so much unhappiness that you want to flee, to escape, to run away from the relationship?
In what ways do you react in your present relationship
that cause you the most pain?
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how personal growth is really your relationship-success solution.
Advice For Relationship Success:
Any discord or difficulty you face in a relationship presents you with a lesson that reveals how you can change or grow for more relationship satisfaction.
By examining each relationship experience you can emerge with your own love-advice for a more love-filled life.
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Understanding how to work with your child’s power of imagination is important for supporting child development
Understanding how to work with your child’s power of imagination is important for supporting child development.
When children begin “making things up” it’s easy for a parent to become anxious about the need for the child to “tell the truth”.
Out of fear, the parent may over-react to the child’s made up tales and squelch the positive use and development of the child’s imagination-power.
Children seem to have an instinctive knowledge of how to use fantasy for their own good.
For instance, to protect herself from being emotionally devastated, the 5 year old son of a deceased father told his friend that his father was actually alive, but on a secret mission for the Army.
A child who was the smallest in his class told his parents one day, “Today I was bigger than Amos (the tallest in the class).
In these cases we see a wise application of the imaginative stage of child development. The child is using his new power to help himself to feel good about his life and about himself, and the child needs to feel good to behave well and perform successfully.
Do you regard the examples of making things up as behavior problems?
How does YOUR child use the power of fantasy?
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Children need a strong imagination to help them to cushion the blows of harsh realities, for problem-solving, and to create magnificent goals for themselves. The child who makes things up may be revealing a gift for story-telling that is just beginning to blossom.
So we need to teach children when and how to tell the truth, but avoid giving them the harmful message that making things up is always wrong. A powerful imagination is part of healthy child development.
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Successful and stress free child behavior management is a great goal.
As parents we want to inspire our children to pursue worthwhile goals.
As parents we want to inspire our children
to pursue worthwhile goals.
And there is no better way than to model our dedication to achieving great things ourselves.
There exists no greater goal in life for a parent to than the goal of great, stress-free parenting.
Children benefit in two major ways when you remain truly dedicated to this goal:
1. Your child will demonstrate more responsible and rewarding behavior.
2. Your modeling will instill in your child the drive and self-confidence to pursue meaningful goals.
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Producing great child behavior with love, and without draining anger or stress, is a process of goal setting and achievement.
Begin by setting your goals.
Think about ways your child now behaves that bother you, and consider how you would like your child to behave instead.
Here are a few examples of behavior management problems turned into goals.
• My child makes things up. I want him to be more honest.
• She brags to cover her insecurity. I want her to feel secure enough to not brag.
• My toddler throws objects when he does not receive immediate attention. I want him to be more patient and not throw destructively.
What child behaviors drive YOU crazy?
Feel welcome to share them in a blog entry for your sane solutions.
Once you have your goals for your child in mind, the next step is crucial.
INCLUDE GOALS FOR YOUR PARENTING.
Children should not be your only focus. You want to improve your child behavior management with love, without unhappiness, anger or stress. You want to fully enjoy SUCCESSFUL parenting.
Keep this 2-sided goal in mind:
Then work everyday on making whatever small or large improvements you can make in BOTH areas.
Little by little you will achieve improved child behavior management, and love the process more and more.
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The moment you begin looking for a way to succeed, you begin finding your way to succeed.
Your life IS a perfect success training opportunity.
Every experience that you go through offers you an education in how to go through it better.
If you look for a better way to live in this moment, you will find it.  “Seek and you will find” is a provable law of life and one of life’s greatest success training secrets.
Train yourself to seek your path to truly
fulfilling success in the now.
What are you looking for?
Your daily living experiences offer you the success training opportunities you need to turn your dreams into reality.
The moment you begin looking for a way to succeed,
you begin finding your way to succeed.
If you feel stuck in any way, open your mind to the educational opportunity offered to you right now.  Observe what you say, think, feel and do and notice what that causes you to go through.
Then simply look for  better, more effective and efficient way to achieve your goals and you will find it.
When you go through disappointment or difficulty, accept the opportunity for great success training. Look for the lessons that you can use to be more successful, and you will find those lessons even in the darkest times.
To find success, define what you mean by “success”. Training for triumph requires first that you know the triumph you want.  Define and envision a particular goal.  Then ask yourself, “What abilities do I need to develop to achieve this?” You will receive an answer defining the training for success that you need.
Your current level of accomplishment in any area of life is an exact reflection of your current level of ability.  To achieve a higher level of success, training is required.
The best form of success training is to work on developing the abilities you feel most inspired to develop, and to turn every life-experience into a lesson that points to training you can use to lead a more successful life.
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