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The first part of this relationship tip has to do with recognizing when the time has arrived when you are not going to be able to get along.
One relationship tip that we rarely find is how to NOT get along.
And yet, such a relationship tip is really essential, because in any relationship that lasts a significant length of time, it is inevitable that there will be times when the two of you just can’t get along.
Relationship tips usually focus on how TO get along. But just as important is knowing how to NOT get along.
There really is a healthy, constructive, beneficial way
of NOT getting along.
The first part of this relationship tip has to do with recognizing when the time has arrived when you are not going to be able to get along.
This occurs when you find either you or your partner in a very low, cranky or cantankerous mood. Moods are bound to go up and down.
Trying to harmoniously connect with one of you feel very irritable is like
trying to drink water from an empty cup.
It is going to be just plain impossible.
Because our moods are contagious, it is easy to respond to crankiness with crankiness, and this is exactly how NOT to Not get along.
To apply this relationship tip, regard crankiness as a sign that it is time to be independent. If you feel nervous or insecure when you cannot connect with your mate, take that as a sign that you really need this. As your anxiety comes up, you can gradually let it go, and so “cure” yourself of excessive emotional dependency.
Irritability is a sign that a person needs some space and time to work out his or her own emotional state. For whatever reason – it may be tiredness, hunger, a particularly challenging day, illness or something else – for the good of the relationship, let go of the relationship for a while.
If you find yourself feeling resentful, lonely, or needy when you need to give your partner some space, just let those feelings be there, without resisting them. Then focus on doing what you want to do for yourself until you find that fulfilling.
As you apply this relationship tip for how to NOT get along,
you will actually find the two of you getting along
BETTER in the long run.
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