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Often, people who seek relationship help expect to find relationship tips for getting someone else to change in some way.
The fact is that there really is no sane or healthy way to “make” people to do something they don’t want to do.
Begging, nagging, bribing, enticing or intimidating may drive someone into “caving in” to your will or wishes for a very short term basis and on a very superficial level, but then you have to continue doing this for control, which traps YOU into patterns of behavior that you do not want to endure.
To achieve the fulfillment that you want in a relationship, help yourself by no longer struggling to change others. Regard yourself as the creator of your relationship experiences.
What YOU say, think, feel and do
determines what happens to you.
Here’s real relationship help: remember that trust is one of your greatest creative powers.
How others relate with you is life’s reactions to your actions. In relationships, as in every other area of life, you can achieve all of the success and fulfillment that your heart desires. It happens to as you direct YOUR creative forces in line with what you really want.
The downside of manipulation is that you soon find yourself right back at it, and because we reap what we sow, you also soon find yourself being the object of other people’s efforts to manipulate you.
The more you criticize and complain about others, the more you find to criticize and complain about.
Keep your heart and mind open to the possibility that you can
experience the fulfillment of your heart’s desire.
Never accept for one moment the notion that you must be deprived on any level. Here’s real relationship help: remember that trust is one of your greatest creative powers.
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