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To achieve the fulfillment that you want in a relationship, help yourself by no longer struggling to change others. Regard yourself as the creator of your relationship experiences. The harder you work on changing others the more depleted and defeated you feel and the more emotionally dependent upon others you become.
Relationship Help: Beware of Manipulation
By Bob LancerJanuary 7th, 2011
Personal Development Equals Greater Success
By Bob LancerJanuary 4th, 2011
We each individually need to regard ourselves as the creators
of our own levels of success in life. Instead of hoping, waiting, or worrying, put yourself to work and pursue your personal development.
Love And Child Development
By Bob LancerJanuary 4th, 2011
For child development, children need to feel secure about their parents' unconditional love. Being sensitive to your child's deeper feelings is essential for healthy child development.
How To Bring More Love Into Your Relationships
By Bob LancerSeptember 9th, 2010
Within the power of desire is a feeling and a vision of the desire's satiation. Living in the feeling and vision of the love you want instantly liberates your love, unless you resist love. As long as you resist love, you live without love.
Relationship Advice For Strife
By Bob LancerSeptember 8th, 2010
You make a harmonious, loving relationship unattainable for yourself as long as you refuse to live in a harmonious, loving way. To diminish relationship strife, follow this relationship advice: diminish the stress in your life. Stress is not caused by circumstances, but by driving ourselves too hard to control our circumstances.
Solve Your Problems With Positive Thinking
By Bob LancerSeptember 8th, 2010
You experience a problem only as long as you continue thinking about what you do NOT want. As long as you want problems, continue thinking about them. But when you are ready for solutions, it's time for positive thinking.
Your Self-Help Power: A Key To Success
By Bob LancerSeptember 8th, 2010
The more you blame and complain about others or circumstances, the more power you lose, and the more your life seems to spin out of control.
The more you focus on what you do to cause what happens to you, the more self-help power you can access and the more effectively you can direct your own life.
A Root Of Behavior Problems
By Bob LancerSeptember 8th, 2010
Child behavior problems fester when the parent's intention is to control the child for the sake of the parent's personal satisfaction, without regard for the child's developmental interests. When parents enforce obedience for the sake of obedience, they develop in the child a blindness or a numbness to the child's inner sense of life-wisdom.
Your Child Development Discipline Solution
By Bob LancerSeptember 8th, 2010
Just as nature drives flowers and plants to fulfill their glorious potential, the child development urge drives your child, from deep within, to fulfill his glorious potential. This pattern causes children to naturally crave the guidance and direction that helps them develop the abilities and strengths they will need to "make it" in the world.
Improve Your Child’s Behavior Through Awareness
By Bob LancerAugust 29th, 2010
Pay close attention to how you respond to your child's behavior. Through this simple practice you will find ways to improve your child's behavior and your parenting experiences. Any anger that you exhibit in response to your child's behavior works against you and against your child.
