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Based on the absolutely reliable law of life: seek and you will find, there is definitely wisdom in looking for love.
Time is all that separates seeking and finding, but we never really know for sure how long it will take us to find what – or who – we seek.
But we can trust in the fact that we shorten the time between seeking and finding the more we develop and apply our power of focus.
To find the love that you are looking for may require a great deal of perseverance. Along the way to any goal of great importance to us, we need to be willing to pass through valleys of disappointment.
One key to successfully looking for love involves learning how to pass through disappointment. And the vital element to bear in mind regarding this is passing through.
When we land in yet another disappointment, it’s all too easy to get stuck there. We get stuck in disappointment by keeping the idea of it in mind. Whatever you focus upon, though, is where you are headed. That is why looking for love works.
As long as you are anticipating disappointment you are not fully looking for love. You are at least partially looking for lovelessness.
To find the love you are looking for, therefore, you need to free your focus from expectations of a replay of a sorrowful past episode in your love-life.
To do this, intentionally direct your focus to contemplate the experience of love that you want in your life. The more you practice this, the clearer your love-goal grows and the more attuned you will be to recognize your opportunity for achieving it.
Looking for love with doubt that it can happen means that you are looking with a split focus. Doubting that you can achieve what you want keeps a part of your attention fixated on failure.
Look into your heart to feel, know and envision the love you want in your life.
Looking for the love you want works.
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